Hair Accessories for Black Tie Events

Hair Accessories for Black Tie Events

Black tie is where hair accessories get tricky. The dress and jewelry are already doing a lot, so the hair needs to look finished without competing. At the same time, a black tie night is long. Dinner, speeches, dancing, maybe an after-party. Whatever is in your hair has to hold through all of it.

After more red carpets and galas than I can count, here's how I approach it.

Start with the hold, then decide on decoration

The biggest mistake I see is choosing a decorative accessory first and then trying to make it hold the hair. A heavy jeweled barrette or a big embellished clip usually can't anchor a style on its own. It slides, tilts, or pulls at one spot all night.

Flip the order. Build the style with pins that are designed to hold, then add decoration on top if you want it. The structure should never depend on the ornament.

The best black tie updos for pins

The low chignon. Elegant, timeless, and it frames the face and neck, which is exactly where black tie jewelry lives. Use a Petite Power Pin, or a Power Pin for long, heavy hair, through the base of the roll, with a few small U-shaped pins along the fold for insurance. My chignon tutorial walks through it.

The French twist. Classic for a reason. It's clean from the front and beautiful from behind, which matters when you're seated at a table all night. Anchor it with one French twist pin through the center of the roll.

The sleek bun. For a very modern black tie look, a high or low sleek bun with a clean part. The trick is tension and placement, not a jar of gel. I break it down in the best hairpins for a sleek bun.

Choosing the accessory itself

Invisible. If your jewelry is the statement, keep the hair hardware invisible. A pin color-matched to your hair disappears so the shape does the talking. We make every pin in nine shades matched to real hair for exactly this reason.

Metal. If you want a touch of shine in your hair, a gold or silver pin worn on the outside of a chignon or twist looks like jewelry and holds like a tool. Our Metals were designed for nights like this.

One statement, not three. If you do wear a decorative piece, let it be the only one. A single accent at the side of a low bun looks intentional. Several pieces start to look busy.

What to avoid

Plastic claw clips. They're fine for errands. With a gown, they make the hair look like an afterthought.

Visible clusters of bobby pins. If you need extra support, use pins in your shade and tuck them under the shape. Hero Pins are good for those finishing details.

Anything that pulls. A heavy ornament hanging from one small section of hair puts concentrated tension on that spot for hours. A pin that anchors through the whole style spreads the load.

A note from my kit

For a black tie job, my kit always has two kinds of pins: small ones for building structure and a larger one for the final anchor. That combination is what keeps an updo looking the same at midnight as it did walking in. It's also why I designed Day Rate the way I did, as a set of tools for a whole style rather than a single decorative piece.

Hair for Zoe Saldana by Aviva Jansen Perea


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